Have
you ever wondered what your offspring would be like if you had
married someone else?i
What would theyii
look like? Would their intelligence be different? And what about
personality? Chances are there wouldn't be that much of a
difference. You'd probably have chosen a mate with some similarities
to the one you did – physical, intellectual and personality ones –
and that means the children wouldn't be all that much different from
what you have. Your parenting techniques would probably be much like
the ones you used or are using now, so nurture, like nature, wouldn't
vary all that much from what's currently the case. Of course you'll
never know. If that had been the case you'd have other offspring and
there would be no one available for the comparison with them.
But
there would be one major difference – _____________ [fill in with
your children's namesiii]
wouldn't exist. The ones you love dearly, simply wouldn't be there.
And you'd never know the difference.iv
Nor would they. Not existing, how could they know the opportunity
lost to them? And whatever impact they would have had on the world
won't come about, but no one will ever be aware of that. And their
children – the images of your beloved sons and daughters – will
never be known to you. That, though, is life. Or, more to the
point, that isn't life. And, of course, there's always the
possibility that you
might never have existed.
Abortion
is like that – the childv
lost will never be known by us, nor ever self-aware. But there's one
important difference, because no other would be born in his place.
The first situation – a different child because one of the parents
is different – represents a kind of zero-sum exercise, even if the
gain and loss can't be compared because they won't both exist. In
the case of abortion, it's all loss. It's not zero-sum, but all
negative. The starting point – the fetus – will never mature
into a human. It will be ablated before it is fully developed.
Almost the same as contraception, except that the latter is more
passive than active.vi
Almost the same, but not quite. There's no need to destroy what
never existed. In that way, it's more zero-sum than negative.
What
is the meaning of life? That's what it all comes down to, even if I
have no idea what is the answer to the question. I don't even know
what the question is.vii
It is clearly a matter of concern to the general population though.
Just as the question of abortionviii
troubles society, so does the use of capital punishment in American
society.ix
And there are numerous vegetarians and their “extremists,”
vegans. Where they all stand on the treatment of bacterial
infections, which require the killing of bacteria, I don't know.
Perhaps, because they consider vegetables fair game, this doesn't
bother them.x,xi
But what about killing tapeworms? And even if they believe the use
of leather should be proscribed, what's the status of wool? Is there
a single answer to the question of life or do individuals and society
have to draw their own lines?
I
don't recall the invention of fire. Nor do I remember Socrates,
Attila the Hun, Napoleon, or Woodrow Wilson. I hadn't been born. I
didn't exist. Suppose you
never existed. Of course you wouldn't be aware of it. Nor would you
be aware that you weren't aware. Nor would you be. You would
certainly have no memory of those past events I mentioned. Or
anything else. But, unaware, you wouldn't care.
That's all
philosophy. The good thing about being a philosopher is that you can
ask unanswerable questions and, if you come up with any kind of a
system to account for the problems you raise, you can use terminology
so arcane that it won't be understood. The only person who can come
close is the clergyman. His questions, however, even if answered by
unprovable assertions, are usually followed by an understandable
explanation – but one that often ends with a declaration of faith.
So what's the
point? There are no answers. The “ultimate question” will
always be around and no one will be able to answer it. All we can do
is imagine. And as you're considering questions of life and death –
as you're formulating a position on the issues raised here –
imagine, for example, that _____________ had never been born.
Next episode:
“There She Is, Myth America?” – A conventional solution to an unconverniotnal problem.
v Make
substitution(s) here if needed. This is the last time I'll mention
it. From now on you're on your own.
vii For
Douglas Adams, author of The
Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy,
the
Ultimate Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, The Universe, and
Everything was 42. I guess that's as good as anything, even if the
saga's computer had decided that the question was to find the
product of nine and six. By the way, it words in base thirteen –
however neither Adams nor the computer was working with this base.
ix Ignoring
the question of whether mistakes may be made, there is a real
argument about whether it is ever justified to take a life. Some
pacifists don't even consider that war justifies such action. And
self-defense is not an adequate reason. Life was given by G-d and
only he is justified in taking it away. In the final chapter of
Samuel II (24:14) David says: “... let us fall into the hand of
the Lord for his mercies are great; don't let me fall into the hand
of man.”
xi I'd
view that as a facetious question except that I know that pacifists
might not consider “self-defense” as a satisfactory reason for
killing, and that some religious believers may prefer to leave all
healing in G-d's “hands.”